What kind of spider is this? ?

I saw this HUGGEE spider, it had a super tiny body, like an the size of an ant, and its legs were like, 4 inches long. I dont think it was a daddy long legs. I live in virgina, could that do with anything? And also how do I get rid of these spiders and bugs! There are tons of ants and all kinds of spiders. I just smushed a black spider with thick legs 5 minutes ago. We have crickets, centipedes, you name it. But I freak out so much when I see bugs, I cant stand it! I cant walk on the ground for a while until I think they are all gone.