Just someone please care about me?

My friend was molested by her uncle and I know this is so selfish for me to say but I am getting so tired of her dissing herself the whole time. And when I try to help her, she doesnt let me. I know I'm being so selfish, I know. But for once I would just like to have something about me. It is never about me and I dont think anyone cares about me as I do about her. Even if she does she is not showing it. I would like for once to be just the victim, rebel, messed up one and not the one who has to fix everything all the time, why cant someone just for once worry about me and take care of me and fight for me. Why, I know Im selfish . I dont even care. I just for once want to be taken care of, just once. How come no one is noticing my problems and trying to save me or am I supposed to be the shadow my whole life. Cuz right now life is really worthless I am powerless I dont know what to do anymore. I know im selfish, but my problems are insifnificant and not important